At the 5th month of pregnancy, I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I did not file for divorce, I forgave him so that my daughter would have a dad. But in a month something happened that struck me
I met my future husband while studying at the university. Andrey was a few years older, worked in a solid firm, lived with his parents and collected money for his own housing. A few months after we met, we started dating, and when I graduated from university, we started living together in a rented apartment. I myself am from a small village, so after graduating from university I could not find a job for a long time, because I had no connections. And then I managed to get a job at a law firm, while a secretary, and the boss promised to take a lawyer later.
2 years after the start of our life together, I got married, and we decided to get married with Andrey. We just signed and sat in a restaurant with our parents and a few closest friends. A few days later we just went back to work – no romance and no honeymoon. But on the fifth month of the watch, I found out that my husband was cheating on me. I did not file for divorce, I forgave him so that my daughter would have a dad. Before that, I never doubted Andrei, I thought that even thoughts of cheating were not about me, I was confident in myself and in a man.
And everything collapsed when I came to work for him one day. That day I took a day off because I had to visit a doctor, I just found out the sex of our unborn child and hurried to tell my husband the news… As it turned out, the mistress worked together with Andrey. Everyone in his office knew about Andrey’s relationship «on the side», which had lasted for more than a year. Andrey promised me not to communicate with this person anymore, and I decided that I had to save my family. In the sixth month of my pregnancy, I went on maternity leave and decided to go to my parents for a week.
Of course, I didn’t tell them anything about my husband’s infidelity, and they didn’t ask about anything, they thought I just missed him, and Andrei had to work. But after two days I didn’t feel very well. I decided to go to the city and go for a checkup. I called my husband and asked him to send me money to the card so that I could take a taxi, and not «hang out» on the bus (the city was not far from my hometown). But he only rudely replied that my parents were nearby, and I should ask them for help. Now I’m just glad that I left on my own, because Mom wanted to accompany me. After all, something happened that made me sho cuckoo! Of course, I immediately went to the bakery.
My li kar assured me that everything was fine with the child, but prescribed expensive Li ki. I called my husband again to ask for money for Lee ki, and his answer was the same. I noticed that Andrey was communicating with me somehow brazenly, so I immediately went home, and there an almost empty apartment was waiting for me: Andrey collected all his things, and even all the new equipment that we bought together. Of course, I didn’t find our common savings either. It turned out that the man had moved in with his mistress. In a few days he stopped even picking up the phone. I didn’t know what to do, so I just went back to my parents. Four months ago I gave birth to a wonderful girl.
My parents help me with care and financially, I still live with them. I don’t communicate with Andrey, he doesn’t send money for his daughter. And now I realized that I must, first of all, respect, love and take care of myself. I have to be strong for my daughter and show her a good example. Now I know for sure that I will not tolerate insults and disrespectful attitude towards myself! I want to say to all women: respect and love yourself and never forgive treason!
