For the umpteenth time in the news feed comes across a whiny story about a single mother with many children who needs financial help. The names in the stories are different, but the essence is the same: 3-5 children, the husband ran away, they don’t take work, because children, and in general there is no time to work, because children. There are no relatives with money, so help kind people …!
I read it, swore at the topic of female stupidity and arrogance and suddenly heard from friends that I was cruel, because as a woman I should understand poor mom, and men are all goats!
! No, really, why should I regret and financially help a stupid woman who has learned to reproduce, but has not learned to think and earn? Was she forcibly forced to give birth in such numbers? She didn’t understand how much money was needed to support such a crowd of children? Oh, yes, she had a husband. That is, she got married, and you can reproduce in unlimited quantities, because the husband has to support his children?
And someone asked my husband if he wanted so many children? Will he be able to earn so much? The wife does not know how much her husband earns and is it enough for everyone? Well, let’s say you accidentally got pregnant, sometimes you didn’t plan to, but is it so difficult to sit down and discuss the next replenishment with your husband? Are you against abortions because God gave you kids? So why should someone else feed your children, and not you and God? The husband, so bad, ran away? So you planned everything without him.
By the way, why do many mothers not consider in advance the option of losing their husband for various reasons? There is always a chance to be left alone with the children, what are you going to do then?The husband also participated in the conception, and he should help? If you have not agreed in advance whether you want children or not, or your husband is against condoms, control your body yourself — there are pills, spirals. But it seems that it’s just convenient for you to be married and multiply under this sauce, hanging the provision of children on anyone but yourself.Multiply wisely! Taking away a carefree childhood from your children is a very irresponsible act!
