A few days ago, my youngest 16-year-old daughter brought two children to our house. One boy is 2.5 years old, his brother is a year and seven. Their parents had to leave urgently for a day, there was no one to leave the kids with…
Hello, dear subscribers and casual readers! I will tell you today about my youngest 16-year-old daughter. She has a special gift: she gets along with people very easily and quickly gets into their problems. Well, and often these problems later become our common ones…
Most of the cats and cats that have ever lived with us were brought into the house by Yulka. Our Bonya, a noble breed dog, who still lives at our house, also appeared with the direct and active assistance of her daughter. If something happens to her numerous friends-girlfriends, acquaintances, even acquaintances of acquaintances, it almost never remains without the participation of Julia. Need help removing firewood? It will help. Someone to buy-take away-take away-transfer something to? Will do. Often he asks me: «Mom, transfer this and that money, you need it urgently, but the card is empty.» I throw it over) Fortunately, we are always talking about small amounts.
Last summer there was a situation… Yulia went to her grandmother (my ex-husband’s mother), returns with a bag of strawberries. At the same time, there were many berries in the garden. I ask where the firewood, that is, strawberries? It turns out that when she was driving to her grandmother’s, she noticed an old woman at the store who was selling berries. She goes back — she’s still sitting. The sun was just baking, it was stuffy outside… Well, Yulka spent all the money she had and what her grandmother gave her, and spent on strawberries. In order, therefore, to free an elderly person from the need to fry in the sun while waiting for customers.
Recently, she also started working as a baby sitter. Most often for conditional payment — simply because people want to help. Yulia knows how to handle and communicate with children, there are no problems in this regard. Her youngest client was five months old. She will change diapers, and cook porridge, if necessary, and feed the child, and put him to bed… I trained on my younger brother)
Last week he called me: «Mom, can I stay at Ksenia’s for the night?» I ask, who is Ksyusha? She says it’s a girl she met recently. Ksyusha has two children — 2.5 years and a year and seven months. Yulia has already sat with them several times. And here is an emergency situation: a woman and her husband need to leave for a day — to the village, to the funeral of someone from close relatives. They will go by truck, take everything they need for burial from the funeral agency. It is not an option to take children with you, and there is no one to leave with them — a young family has no relatives in the city, and they did not have time to get close friends. Well, after all, Yulka is already familiar with the kids…
I say: no, I can’t allow you to stay overnight — it’s still not a child’s responsibility. She began to persuade: there is no other way out, they say. I suggested an alternative: children are brought to us. At least I’ll feel safer.
The middle daughter Anyutka, when she found out that we would have guests, said: «Well, Yulka used to drag dogs and cats home, now she drags children»))) In general, last Tuesday, while I was at work, the boys were brought to us. They are funny, like any children at their age. They gave heat to our animals! Gleb was just delighted with the boys) But, of course, Yulka took all the main worries on herself: she fed the kids, changed clothes, washed, walked with them. The boys, by the way, are calm, did not act up, did not cry, fell asleep at nine in the evening and slept until morning. In the morning, Yulka cooked porridge for them herself) Somewhere in the fourth hour of the day, their parents took them away. And Yulia was paid the money)
This is the experience of driving with other people’s children that my youngest daughter already has. I’m afraid to even guess who she will undertake to help next time)
P.S. The next time did not take long to wait. That’s why today I published another article about my youngest daughter: «The daughter stood up for her friend and called the police. And it all started with a conflict in social networks. In general, again about my youngest…»